Bitter experience such heartbreak will make everyone more cautious step as selecting a partner. Rather than fear a similar bitter experience, they just become too pickyDreaming of getting a right partner can be motivating yourself. However, the dream is not enough. You must act to achieve goals.
Zavaro Lynn, author of 'The Game of You', give some steps for a dream come true, in romance or in other aspects of life as reported from Shine.
1. Visualize the ideal relationship
Dream on things that really you want, and visualize in your mind's eye.
Concentrate with closed eyes for 5-10 minutes, then felt a deep peace of the shadow relationship of your dreams.
2. Write the desire
Immediately write down what you see in the mind as if it happened today, or is already happening. This is the strongest way to determine what action will be taken to realize your desires.
3. Write down the type of man's dream
In the first line of a sheet of paper write the word 'I', then write the type of person you want to be a partner in detail. Be active and clear with your description.
Example: I enjoyed a love affair with a man who is kind, gentle, and loving. Or, I love spending time with a man who likes to have fun, and also love to cook together at home.
4. Write down all the desire in romance
Continue the sentence until you feel everything you want in a relationship. Let the flow but do not vote. Remember that you want to find a true partner is a conceptual idea that may not exist.
5. Affirm positively
Make sure every sentence you uttered by using positive words. Hold yourself to use negative descriptions like the word 'no'. As we explain in the negative, we unconsciously let negative thoughts
permeate the soul.
Example: "I do not want to fight with people I love," you can replace it with the phrase, "I communicate with my loved ones with maturity, openness, and pleasure.
6. Know what you can not tolerate. Use your past experiences to explain what you do not want to face in the next relationship.
For example, if you do not want to have a relationship with a man who far from you or the guy who already has children, the input scene
on something that you can not tolerate. Be sure always to use a positive perspective as someone who was in
the same area, or someone who is still single.
7. Be aware of your values
Know what the value of life's most
important to you? Make sure they are included in your list, and set it as the value which should also be your dream man be trusted. A successful relationship must be in agreement or at least respect the value of each.
8. Check back to list
Check back to see your writing
if you forget something that important to you. Make sure this paper is the description of a larger dream than get caught up in details that are too obvious.
For example, if you make posts like, "He had earned more than 1 billion per year," we suggest you use the phrase, "He can make my life and family in good circumstances."
9. Read the papers every day
Read with a loud voice for a week to drill into your subconscious. Place the text in places easily visible so that you are easy to remember what is in it.
10. Always open
Prepare to welcome your new relationship to get surprises and not exactly the same as what you write. However, if you meet someone not in accordance with the values you want, do not dare to compromise
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